Gossip the Dreaded Cancer of Team Dynamics

water cooler gossipYou see your staff gathered around the proverbial water cooler and connecting with co-workers. Perhaps they are catching up on what’s happened over the weekend. So, how does this inane behaviour become like a cancer? It happens when the conversation wanders off course and people start conversations with, “Did you hear that Sally in accounting…” Sometimes you may be inadvertently passing on dishonest and inaccurate information. I once worked with an organization where gossip was abundant and it appeared to be a symptom, as well as, partial cause of a dysfunctional team.

What began to happen, probably some years ago, was that people started to complain about each other making statements to one another that ‘she doesn’t even do her job’, ‘did you hear that …?’ The problem was twofold – the person was spreading gossip and it was based on a lie that someone had told. No one went directly to the person being gossiped about to see if it was an accurate statement and in actuality, it could be slanderous statement if it challenged the individual’s character. Gossip undermines people being direct with one another and resolving differences and challenges effectively.

Gossip is not helpful as it enables individuals to continually talk about other people with no accountability – often times team members will become pseudo-connected through this negativity. In other words, they become fused “as friends” through the common interest of criticizing another person. Then when these individuals get together, they’ll fall back to their common interest which is gossip. It’s very rare to gossip about another’s strengths. Gossip tends to create cliques of individuals while it excludes others. This cancerous behaviour will undermine team dynamics and create a more negative workplace.

If people are gossiping in your organization, challenge it by developing a zero tolerance policy. Let them know that gossip will not be tolerated and what the consequences will be should they continue.  If you know specific individuals who are frequent gossipers, then speak with each person directly and be clear on your expectations going forward. Ask your staff what they wish to achieve through their behaviour. Inquire how they would feel if others were treating them the same way. Gossip tends to break down individuals and teams, as it undermines direct communication and problem solving.

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